Hello burnedagain
I agree with BLR about the problems with your ex.
But be careful how you address them.
What to do?
I've been dating this girl for the past 8 months. ...
over the last few months we've been off and on repeatedly breaking up and making up.
We've tried and tried to work through our issues, but it seems we might just be too different.
we just recently broke up again, but have agreed to try and stay friends.
At this point im starting to feel like its time to move on to something new.
... i dont think i want back in.
I've always had this huge crush on my friends sister, and know that she likes me as well because we had discussed it before
I recently spent some time hanging out at my friends place and she was there.
there was alot of flirting back and forth between us, and it seems like a great opportunity to move on and start fresh.
What should I do???
Read my quote of what you posted ~ I think that you have answered your own question, don't you?
Do you feel responsible for this girl, because you encouraged her to stay?
I can see that this would be difficult.
Yes, this girl needs support and friendship, but she does not need a boyfriend, who is dating her only out of a sense of duty, would rather be dating someone else, and considers the idea of spending the festive season with her as a 'holiday horror!'.
It might be best to start dating your friend's sister, if that is what you all want, so that it is a fait accompli when you contact your ex ~ then you can be a friend, but you already have a girlfriend.
I hope that it all goes well for all of you
