http://www.thesun.co.uk/sol/homepage/news/article2233878.ece

I think this article says a lot about reasons for waiting to get intimate. I agree with PDM and the others, sex should wait. I can speak from personal experience...I got pregnant when I was 16 and had my baby. I ended up in a horrible abusive realtionship with the baby's father. We are now divorced, and I have a boyfriend who loves and respects me, but it was a very hard time for me. Things are still harder because of my decision to have my daughter...I have to work full time and go to school (college) at night, I have to be "responsable" ALL tHE TIME. I can't just decide I want to go out and party or even just see a movie. I do no regret my decision and would never change it, but it has made life very hard for me in some ways.

Good luck, and I think it is very responsable of you to put so much thought into this.


~ Maggie
Mama to Juliana Elise (03/07), Wesley Dominick (06/10) and four feathered 'tielbabies!