Thanks for all the replies, we sat down and had a bit of chat, we are going to continue for a bit and see where it ends up!
So far its been good it has no been brung up at all everything seems to be getting back to normal, i actaully stated that you do deserve better and she said i don't so i was quite happy, even though she does.
Thank you for the help i shall stay around and help people who helped me
xo
