My boyfriend and i had been dating since April, and everything was perfect until the end of June. I met his mother, sister, and other family members. We were together every other day. We had an amazing time together. Towards the end of June he started complaining that he was in a financial rut and that he had to work a lot of overtime. He said he couldn't control our relationship and wish he could give me what i deserved. He was depressed most of the time and often ignored my calls. I didn't understand why he didn't come to me for support. He ignored me the whole month of July. This past sunday i got a phonecall from him telling me that he misses me and that hes going to come see me. He came and we hugged for literally 5 minutes straight. He told me he had had a dream that he was looking for something in his mothers house and he didnt know what he was looking for. When he walked out into the driveway, he saw me, and he knew he was looking for me. He said he missed me, but when i told him i loved him, he didnt say anything. We decided to try to make things work, but for the next two days, he ignored me and didnt call. the third day, i got a text message from him, saying "as u can see, i can't do this whole boyfriend/girlfriend thing. my lifestyle doesnt allow me to enjoy u, im going through 2 much right now. ill call you u later when i can..."
I hate that he's playing games like this. What do I do? Do i just ignore him and try to forget about him so i can get him back? i miss him like crazy, and i wish things went back to the way they used to be. He doesn't know what he's putting me through. I've never been this miserable.
So i just wait until he calls back? What do i say if he ever calls? How can i get him back fast?
