Okay, I came back to look at the keet medical stuff and a link to this caught my eye. A friend of mine recently got married and my husband and I put together a list for her:
It's less painful to accept house rules than not.
Nagging can be avoided by remembering your partner's pet peeves.
It doesn't matter if he leaves the seat up.
If you want something done, start it yourself and hope your partner will fix the mistakes.
Arguments aren't for winning.
An agreement to disagree is still an agreement.
Having an excuse is like flying a kite--your partner just watches it blow in the wind.
The well-being of your partner comes before fun.
Just because he's yours doesn't mean you own him.
Similarly, just because she's yours doesn't mean you own her.
Saying "Sorry...." and meaning it isn't as hard as it sounds (even if you think it's not your fault.)
You really can't change a man... but if he knows what's best, he'll change himself.
The woman is NOT always right--just 95% of the time.
Love it.
