Welcome awkwardgirl905 smile

Why did he take so long to go out with you in the first place?
Why did he finish with you within days?
Why did he come back to you a few weeks later?

You may know the answers ~ I cannot say.
People change their minds.
People 'use' people.
People like to feel wanted.
People may be guided by the comments of others.

The thing now is that your 'heart [doesn't] beat quicker when [you] think of him anymore'. He used to be your dream boy ~ when you were trying ' million times to get him to go out with' you. Now you know the real person and, though you gave him another chance, he just isn't the boy you want any more. This is not uncommon.

To be fair to yourself ~ and to him ~ I think that it is time to end this. No-one should be dating someone they don't want to date.

Then you can both find someone that you each truly care for.

Good luck! smile

Last edited by PDM; 05/02/08 08:06 AM.

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