Hi Alice.

If you want to be trusted ~ don't lie.

But this goes further.

If my son had a girlfriend, whose brother had beaten him up once and was now threatening him, I'd go and help him pack.

You cannot expect someone you care for to suffer the pain and fear that this must be causing him.

Can't you sort this out with your brother?
Or would he hurt you too?

Does your brother need help with anger management?


"The secret of success is constancy to purpose" - Benjamin Disraeli.