You can read about it here - http://happymidwestmarriage.blogspot.com/search?updated-min=2007-01-01T00%3A00%3A00-08%3A00&updated-max=2008-01-01T00%3A00%3A00-08%3A00&max-results=15

Start from the bottom, then work your way up.

Needless to say, the incident (which happened two months ago, and was something I believed to be nothing more than a mini-date and a few hugs) involved something much worse. By any definition, she cheated on me. I found out the truth last night.

Any advice would be greatly appreciated.