Hi

You have already set up a few threads about how to get a girlfriend, etc, and received quite a bit of advice.

Did you follow any of it up?


Treat girls with respect and they may like you in return.

As we suggested before, at 14, you could just ask her to go skating, or bowling, or to the cinema, or to the library to do homework, or to watch sports, or to go for ice-cream, or something like that ~ maybe even go to your house for tea or something ~ whatever seems suitable to you and her ~ provided both sets of parents are OK with it.

If you are pleasant and respectful, girls are more likely to like you and to want to go out with you.

Don't pressurise yourself or her. Keep it friendly and relaxed.

If all goes well, you might become boyfriend & girlfriend.

Let us know how you get on.



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