end it. no use staying with someone you're not serious about--it just complicates things and you'll hurt him more in the end. and remember, a relationship that is right is one where both people love each other equally--and BTW--i had a boyfriend that was "so in love with me!!" too, and he was abusive...i'm lucky to have come out of that one in one piece...lol...so anyway, i'm just saying be careful, and don't waste your time trying not to hurt anybody's feelings because, and i know this sounds harsh, it's impossible. sometimes you have to do thing that are good for you and you can't avoid hurting somebody's feelings...he's not going to die. and neither are you.

and...WELCOME TO THE FORUMS!!! <3 <3 <3 laugh

good luck and hope i helped! smile