I notice you used the subject heading "love". To take Tina Turner out of context "What's love got to do with it"?

You are talking about a young woman you have never met, whom you have seen on stage and on the internet.

You seemingly have what was called in the innocent days of my youth a "crush" on this young woman - that is to say you are attracted to her appearance.

Regardless of the well-meaning advice and platitudes of the others who have responded to your post, the solution to your problem is simple - accept reality.

You say "i want to start to get to know her. but i have writing to her saying that i want to get to know her as friend but she never responded."

A couple of posters tell you that she might not have received your letter; you should write her again.

Yeah, maybe she didn't receive it; far more likely that she just has chosen to not respond to a stranger writing and asserting friendship.

In today's social climate, repeated attempts to make this woman respond to you could be seen as stalking or harrassment. It seems perhaps she does not want to be your friend; she does not want to talk to you. Why not just leave her alone then? Why not try making friends with people you have actually met?

What you have to do is to make sure to not take this personally. There can't be anything personal about it - you have never met, there is nothing about you this young woman knows to dislike. Many times the fact that a stranger might ignore you or have no interest in you has nothing to do with you at all.

Too long to make it short and sweet, but the short and sweet is forget about this one, move on to the next one - I assure you there wil be a next one, and one after that and ...