I know it's difficult especially with kids, but we make an effort to go out together every Friday night for dinner at least, just the 2 of us. If we can't make a Friday night because plans changed well than there is always Sat afternoon or Sunday afternoon.
Why not try a date night( I also make an effort to fix myself up on date nights)
LOL Feng Shui, you've been playing to much Emperor on the computer
I would love a big tv in my room, but there is no room, so I have a small one.