I hate him really hate him extremely hate him
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
this has nothing to do with my crush.It has to do with someone that bothers me way too much.he likes and i hate him really hate him extrimly hate him.Today in school he told me that he liked my legs and that I should wear a skirt tomorrow. I was plenning to but no way now.we had this asambly and he was sitting two rows bihind me and the entire time he called my name.he told one of his friend that i dated him and something else that is horible to write. I tell him to live me alone and that I hate him and to go away but he wount live me alone.I wont him to live me alone without telling anyone like a teacher or my mom because that wount help. give me a lot of ideas how to make him to live me alone.Also this is my exes forlt because him the one who brote him to my friends house where I was before he didnt even know me.Please help me because I cant take it anymore all I wont to do now is pinch him so hard but I wount.Also the last advise was pretty good.Please help me
I'll give you two possible solutions, but you probably won't like either.
The first is the more common sense solution. Since he is very close to sexually harrassing you, don't take this to your teacher or mom (although you could do that) instead ask at the office too see the school psychologist. This is a person who has year's of experience dealing with personality problems and might be able to give you better advice in person that I can do long distance.
The second possible solution would take some daring on your part and some risk too. This solutiion is to turn the tables around on him. Whenever he pays attention to you pretend you like it. You can't fake pretend it you have to make it seem real. If you do this in front of his friends it will especially bug him. If he says you should wear a skirt tell him you will if he does too. Humor can really shut people down if used correctly. You only have to try this for less than a week because if it is going to affect him it will happen quickly. Give him at least three days worth. If it doesn't work you haven't lost anything. Most people will guess what you are doing and that is ok too.
Hope one of these ideas helps you! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com