Deeply in my heart I know he loves me
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
Hi! this is the first time I write to one of this but I really don't know what to do...
I broke up with my ex boy like 3 months ago, we had problems and he said that we needed time to get things clear... I didn't want to but I accepted, and then one month after that he began a new relationship... as far as I know it is not serious, but the thing is, that during all these 3 months he has told me that he still loves me, that he wants to marry me, but now is time to have other tings with other persons 'coz if we get back right now we'd only hurt each other....Now we're having some kind of free relationship, we go out we kiss each other, as if we were still couple even when he still has a girlfriend...
I don't know if I'm doing rigth going out with him, the only thing I have clear is that i love him and deeply in my heart I know he loves me in return.... is it bad wait for him???
He is sowing his wild oats.
Wanting to have some freedom is a natural thing for both men and women. If he feels it is necessary to take a break you have done the right thing to give it to him.
The fact that he still loves you, kisses you, and sees you are good indicators that he will return in good time. You might want to go out on some dates yourself to show him that you are trying the same thing yourself. This in itself could have the affect of him running back to you because he fears losing you.
I wish you good luck in this! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com