I think about him day and night
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
This is going to be extremely long.
So there is this guy whom I have known ever since I was born, but just recently I realized that I have deep feelings for him. During the summer of 2005, my friends and I were playing a game called "Truth or Truth" and he asked me who I like and I relpied with another person's name. I asked him the same question and he just replied with a celebrity.. That following week, I saw him at a typical asian party and we played Truth or Truth yet again. He asked me why I like so and so, in my mind I was thinking why does he want to know? I replied because he's hott and has a six pack. I don't know what happened, but he flashed me his six pack. Jealous? Then, I felt the urge to tell him the truth and all he said was really and for real? He never told me if he liked me or not. Ever since then, he and most of my asian friends had ignored me for some odd reason. We always tease with each other but never have a serious conversation. Over the internet, we have a conversation about relationships. I was saying that a tenth grader was about to ask me out (I'm an eighth grader and it just so happens he is in tenth grade). He replied why would a tenth grader drop down to having a girlfriend in middle school? It ruins the person's reputation, but if he really likes her just ask her out when she's in high school. I'm replying what if "you" lose her. He replies I won't. Then I reply with what do you mean you? He just says that I make everything more complicated than it is and he won't talk to me anymore for that day. This has happen more than twice before for some strange reason.
But it just hards that if he does like me, then he won't ask me out just because I'm in middle school.
I don't know what to do. I think about him day and night. I'm in love with him. Should I move on?
Please help me!
Yes you should move on.
He is too old for you right now. Maybe in a year or so you could have a relationship with him.
You will have many boys that you fall in love with and many boys that love you too. Don't think this is the only chance you have.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com