She needs to sort out her priorities

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ok heres the situation me and my girl are right now in sort of a long didtance rlationship well its only about an hour away but still we barely see each other except for when she comes here anyways last week she was down and it was going good as always like were so much in love she already has a future wdding and we both already told my sister we want her to be the god mother if we ever have kids, anyways it was all good when she left but then the next night she called and said we needed to take a break cause she needs to sort out her priorities and get her life back but she wont tell me anymore then that i mean if she did we'd be able to work through it. I know my ex that also lives out there is giving her a hard time to where she almost broke up with me once cause of it so that might be the reason but still how can she take it out on me I even tried telling my ex to leave her alone but shes supposed to moving out here anyways as soon as schools over and I did every thing right in the relationship and like I said on thursday night when she went home errything was fine but then on Friday night she said she needed us to take a break I dont wanna lose her cause we belong together and its even proven cause looking back on my life alot of different situations have led from one thing to another which finally caused us to meet and then be together I dont know what to do HELP PLEASE ASAP Advice
It sounds like you are doing everything you can to get her back.

The best thing is to give her the space she needs. Don't call her too often, but do call from time to time to see how she is doing and to let her know you still care. Make these short calls to give her her space.

In time, she will give you more details about what is troubling her about you.
With more information you will have a better chance getting her back.

Good luck! George

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