She hasn't been acting the same around me
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
i'm 14 years old and theres this girl at my school that i realy like and she also does cuz she had told some friends and they told me, but the thing is that i'm a shy person when i'm aroun hot girls and i blush alot and i had already asked her out 2 months ago and she said "no" because she noticed i was a shy person around her so we dicided to be really close friends for now, and now(a month later) i'm not really so shy around her and we flurted alot, but she is going out with someone else and she hasent been acting the same around me as if she thinks im mad at her or something(and i'm not at all), i have her for a class and she hardly says hi to me anymore. I still realy like her but i dont want to lose her as a friend. Can you "PLEASE" give me advice on what to do.
You need to start over with her.
Begin to rebuild your friendship. Whenever you see her look her in the eyes and say in a clear voice "Hi" plus her name, and give her a big smile.
She won't be able to resist you if you keep doing it. Pretty soon she will be responding and smiling at you. Then you'll be talking like you used to do.
Perhaps if she tires of her new b/f she will look to you.
For your sake I hope so! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com