I always question her about stuff
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
My girlfriend and started going out a little over a year ago. I am so in love with her and I know she loves me as well. My problem is mainly with myself. I'd say she is the first girl I have had an awesome relationship...most my other relationships just never really took off at all, they all seemed to blow up in my face. My problem is I always question her about stuff and make accusations sometimes...not that she is cheating, but rather that she isn't being truthful to me. I become so afraid that she is growing tired of me, and she assures me she isn't, and I'm convinced she isn't. But then I come to the conclusion that she is later. Don't get me wrong, we get along great when we are together... It's like I want her to feel she can be truthful with me because I love and care for her so incredibly much but when she is, sometimes I feel like she is hiding stuff from me. And I feel hurt. so what should a kid like me do? trust! I know... but a little more help beyond that?
She certainly may get tired of you if you keep questioning her.
Look inside yourself and see if there are things you are hiding from her. Sometimes we put onto another person what we are feeling ourselves. When you are with her, make a point of discussing things that you find uncomfortable about yourself. By trusting her with your innermost feelings, you will build up trust for her.
Also, try to train yourself not to have those jealous thoughts. Fight against them when they appear and tell them to go away because your g/f loves you. After doing this 100 times the thoughts will go away and leave you alone.
Hope this helps! George
-- from George
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