Maybe I'm holding on to a fantasy

Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
How do I get over an ex?

This is sad but true. I am still wildy in love with an ex from 5-6 years ago. She was the one. I had to leave her as my family moved to a new country, so we never broke up in the conventional way. I've done the move on, find other people thing, that just resulted in toooo many noones to my list. I just heard from her today on facebook and now were in the same country. I think of her so much, I just cant seem to move on. I compare everyone else to her, she's not perfect, she completed me though. Should I try to see her? Would seeing her make me realize that maybe im holding on to a fantasy or would it make it worse?

Im a mess. Advice
Maybe you're holding onto a fantasy or maybe not.

So what to do about it? You've been holding these emotions for her for 5-6 years now and you are still madly in love with her.

Now that she's back in the country you should get in contact with her and try to revive what you had once. You only live once, you might as well try it. Who knows, she may be thinking the same thing.

If it works out...great. If it doesn't, maybe it will help you get her out of your mind.

Good luck! George

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