A* is 1 of the sweetest girl I kno
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
hey, remember me? Its been a while since I asked for advice. This time I'm in a tough spot. My life, relationships and future are involved with this.
ok, here's the situation. Last year, before Christmas, A* told me that its not gonna happen, so I got a bit pissed off,after a while I seems to have moved on. Last week, school starts again, I'm a loner in most of my classes, A* is in my Spanish class. I thought I've moved on, obviously not though coz whenever I'm in school, I still think about her. She doesn't know that and she told me that she's going to quit Spanish. I felt...can't describe it. Then I decided to quit 1 of my classses, change it to something else. Then my mum isn't happen about it coz that has nothing to do with my future job i suppose...Is it worth it? I just want to be in A*'s class, spend time with her,should I change my subject is I can be with my friends and A*?
And my relationship porblem, coz my mind is so messed up, I didn't go out with B*(the girl who said she loves me and I like her as well), she's angry for a while coz she was waiting for me to ask her out, I told her about the moving on thing with A* and I'm just not ready(or may be I don't want to commit yet), I thought its unfair to B*, so I told her to do whatever she wants for now. Is that right? Which girl...? My mind is just so messed and the pressure from my parents are killing me. And can you give my advice if I should move on? Like how to move on? A* is 1 of the sweetest girl I kno, so its kinda hard...
You shouldn't change long-term goals because of temporary short-term desires.
So stick with Spanish.
Maybe it's time to give B* a chance. A* has made it clear she isn't interested. B* is not your first choice but she is a nice person.
Who knows, you may discover that B* is better than A*.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com