I can't get his guy out of my head, and I don't want to
Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Female
ok, i dated this guy this is 13 years older then i am, we dated 2 years. we broke it off with me one year ago, but we are still in contact with each, at least once or twice a week. he has told me before he loves me but he is not in love with me. but in the next breath, he is jealous when i talk to someone else, but he is aloud to. he tells me everything about what is going on in his life. his kids, who are older, tell me everything about there life, and tell me not to tell him. (i have younger kids) i can't get his guy out of my head, and i don't want to. what my question is, should i just let him go, becuz he is using me???
You say you don't want to get him out of your head.
But then you say you might let him go.
Things will be better for you if you make up your mind. There is a lot of agony in being on the fence. Do you feel he is using you? If you do then you should drop him.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com