They tell me that she had been thinking of me and missing me

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I was dating this lady around 11- 12 years ago. I ended the relationship thinking that it was'nt going anywhere as she did'nt show much affection. 2 Years later I married another woman & after 10 years of marriage I got divorced. 1 month ago the original girl sent me a text. We met up and she seemed different. From my other sources they tell me that she had been thinking of me and missing me. But when we have been together, she tells me that at the moment she wants to remain friends. Is this a statement just to cover her true feelings for me? Help!! Advice
How long has she been saying this?

Maybe (I could be wrong) she is just trying to tell you that she isn't ready for sex yet. That could be consistent with what you heard from you friends and also the way she is acting with you.

When in doubt, ask. Just ask her what her intentions are with you. Keep asking if she won't tell you at first.

Good luck! George

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