I've had had my chance
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
Hello, i wrote before to you. I was the one who had a 8,5 relationship and he broke-up with me, because he had a new girlfriend, but he stills wants be friends with me . You told me to keep in touch once in a while, and hope he loses his attraction to her (they are now 1,5 month together).
Ok, now i think it's really over! He sent me an e-mail (after I send him one) telling me this:
he is really feeling better with his new girlfriend, but tells me he hadn't that bad with me, but just better with this one. But he says when he was with me, he didn't fell complete, he missed something (+ some other things that bothered him like I wouldn't cook and stuff).
He felt like over the years he wanted to make something of our relationship, but realized only now that something was going wrong. And that now he has this other girl, he feels better. He doesn't know yet if he really will continue with this girl, only time will tell. But he doesn't wanna be with me anymore, I've had had my chance. He tells me to continue my life as I am, and do the stuff I like, and with time I would find someone else. He is not gonna contact me for some time till things get better, but wants to be friends with me after that!
OMG! I feel so miserable now! What am I gonna do? I love him so much! I really want him back, but he doesn't want me anymore!!!!!!!
Someone advice??? Plz??
Yes, unfortunately I agree that you have had your chance.
The thing to do now is the deeper suffering that comes with loss and work your way out of this lost love.
Find new activities, new friends, new men, new interests. Don't let the past ruin your present for too long. Human beings are strong and you will bounce back when you are ready to.
Hope you feel better! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com