Warm up with your best friend
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
I have a best friend whos a guy and he likes me i think i really like him to but i like LOVE my boy friend, but i feel REALLY nervous around my boyfriend and i think if i warm up wit my friend first i might get more used to it and then be able to be near him with out fliping out but the problem is they are both friends and sum times my friend has a BIG mouth. Should i sneak in a little warm up between classes or in hall???
NO NO NO NO NO
The most important thing a boyfriend and girlfriend share is trust and the connection between the two of them. If you go creating connections with OTHER guys you not only violate the trust your boyfriend has in you but you also dilute the power of your connection!!
If you have an issue with your boyfriend you have to ADDRESS THAT ISSUE WITH YOUR BOYFRIEND. You can't address it with someone else!! You and your boyfriend should be able to talk about any issue, should completely trust each other, should be comfortable with each other. If you're not, that's a serious thing to work on and address. And you have to do that WITH your boyfriend.
So sit down with your boyfriend! Why do you feel nervous with him? What makes you nervous? Tell him! And then work on it together.
-- from Jenn
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com