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Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
i know i write a lot n bug u all n that theres others who also need from your help n advise,n i always visit this website 2 read about others problems n stuff n some has helped alot,anyways me and my bf been 2 gether for 4 months n during that time there was a moment we broke up but b cause of your wise advise i realize a lot n took him back..but u c here is the thing ever since we been 2 getheri feel like our relationship is based more on sex then anything else n thats never happened to me b4 i cant keep my hands of him n his the same with me n i know in a way is a good thing but at the same time i worry that that can be part ofwhy we argue a lotcause when we r not having sex we usually arguing about jelousy issues thati have n he has 2..u c i found out he searches my jacket n does other crazy stuff 2 find out if i have another men in my life besides him his even worse then me when itcomes to jelesy issues..he knows all my weekness n my strenghths even if i try 2 hide them so i think thats y he has most of the control in this relationship n i know thats wrong n something i dont like cause im a very independent individual but his changed me n sometimes i dont wanna have sex with him at least not as much as we do cause is kind off unhealthy 4 both us n the relationshipwe do it every day 3 or 4 times.n i just wanna know how can i stop myself from doing it so often and been strong by sticking 2 my word cause is hard 4 me cause i really do enjoy been with him..p.s i would apreciate the advise from every 1 who visits this page n happens 2 read my question n i wanna specially giv thanxs 2 george 4 helping me out...
Remember he offered to go to counseling.
Maybe it's time to take him up on his offer and see if you can solve the jealousy thing. The sex should not be a problem except if it keeps you from talking about normal things of life that have to be dealt with.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com