I had an emotional breakdown in school today
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
Me and this guy have been friends with benefits for over a year now, so when i told him about another interest he flipped. We didnt talk for five days, then i realized i loved him(which he had said already that he loved me. so i tried to talk to him and tell him i want the relationship we had been talkin about, when he told me he had a girlfriend. i have been depressed for the past week and i had an emotional breakdown in school today. I miss his hugs, i miss his kisses, i miss him calling me baby, i miss everythin about him. i don't even have interest in this other guy anymore. he doesnt make me smile the way he does, or laugh or anything. All i want is my baby back and i want him forever.
Since you are had an emotional breakdown in school you should see the school psychologist or nurse.
While a week isn't long enough to get over a relationship, you shouldn't be suffering so much.
Try to stay friends with your ex friend with benefits. That will make it easier to get back together if that is meant to be. Ask him if you can call once a week to ask how he is doing, to let him know you still care, and to maintain contact. Be cheerful, don't discuss your relationship, and limit the call to 15 min.
Hopefully this will work out for you.
I sure hope it does! George
-- from George
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