How do I know if he only wants me for sex?

Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
how do i know if my boyfriend loves me for who i am not for what i am?

how do i know if he only wants me for sex? Advice
This isn't an easy question to answer.

Some signs to look for that it is more than just sex: he talks with you openly, honestly, and trustingly a lot; he is affectionate to you even when sex is not possible; he asks how you are doing and really pays attention to what you have to say; he is happy when you are happy and sad when you are sad; he spends enough time with you; he smiles a lot with you.

In other words, he his your best friend first and your boyfriend second.

Hope this helps! George

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