She is movin 2 london in the end of juneVisitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
i met this grl last year and we started goin out but we only went out 4 a week..but we kept messin around till the point where i went 2 see her everyday an she never wanted me 2 leave an i went home like 12 o clock everyday..i had a little problem on her block an she defended me on sum fightin issues..we started sayin we was married an was tellin everybody..i went 2 trinidad 4 the summer..wen i came bak we got in2 an argument an stopped tlkn 4 a few days but made bak up..afta that we stopped tlkn again but made bak in like a few weeks..then in about october of 2005 we stopped tlkn an jus started tlkn bak in january we are startin 2 become close again but we both go out wit other ppl..we dnt really tlk 2 the other ppl we go out wit..i like her an she likes me..in school she doesnt say anything 2 me an she only says hi if i say hi..but wen she gets home she keeps callin me..weneva i say bi she starts screamin no an doesnt want me 2 hang up..i found out yesterday that she is movin 2 london in the end of june..i really like this grl an thought that we would knw each otha 4eva..my best friend and my sista says i should try 2 go out wit ha again..but idk wat 2 do bcuz wen we tlk on the fone she always says wateva 2 anything i say an she knows i hate that word..weneva i ask ha a question she either doesnt answer me/says im askin a stupid question/says she 4got and i hate that so i jus keep sayin 5months..an she thinks dat im countin down da time 4 ha 2 leave..but im really thinkin bout wat im gonna loose in 5 months..can you please give me advice on what 2 do about the conversation thing and wat 2 do concerning our relationship and her moving away
i knw its long but this is really important 2 me..thank yu
Her conversation is probably affected by the fact that she is moving away.
She probably is depressed about it and can't concentrate on talking with you. When you say goodbye to her and she screams no, you should just hang up because she isn't talking to you in a good way. If she wants to know why you hung up tell her that she has to hold up her end of the conversation.
I don't know what to suggest about her moving away and how it will affect your relationship. If she is leaving forever, then you need to drop her or move to the same place where she is. If she is leaving for a short time then you can try to keep yourselves together though the internet or phone calls.
Hope this helps some! George
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