She's Break Up if We Don't Kiss
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Male
ok, my gf is into kissing..but ive never kissed a girl b4..so i kinda go butterflies , my friend has told me that she is planning on breaking up with me if i dont kiss her within 2 weeks..which adds alot of pressure...
how would i go about kissing her..?
First I really have to say that ANYONE who uses kissing or sex as a pressure technique is bad, bad news. What if you had a younger sister and she told you a guy was going to abandon her if she didn't do XXXX for him in 2 weeks? You'd tell her to get away from that guy!! It doesn't matter if it's kissing or touching or anything else. All of those are personal contact issues and are ALL about two people who really want to do it voluntarily. If she feels it is OK for her to force you to do something within a time frame, she is being very, very selfish and abusing the relationship.
A kiss is an extremely personal act between two people. There is no right or wrong way to kiss. Some people like it dry. Some people like it wet. Some people like it quick. Others like it slow. So the only way to know what she likes is to kiss her and ask her for feedback, then kiss her again and so on. That's also what makes it so much fun :)
There are lots of kissing tips at flirtingclass.com. But again, I really think this girl needs to get a handle on life. And I'm worried that if you give in to her demands here, that she'll just keep demanding things from you, which is NOT how a relationship is supposed to be.
-- from Jenn
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com