She told me she would start talking to me again eventually
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
Okay, my girlfriend and I were dating for about 3 years. She recently broke up with me because all I wanted to do is find out if this girl had my child before we got together. So I brought her up here after she broke up with me because we had a decent fight. So now I know the girls mine but I don.t want anything to do with her. Well before she went back to college we went out for a little while and had a good time. It was the first time we really did anything since the break up. She told me she would start talking to me again eventually and that she wouldn't be seeing anyone new anytime soon. Well she went back to school and I seen her on an Instant messenger and i didn't say anything because she really hadn't been talking to me any way. So she put up an away mesg that said, reading because someone won't talk to me. so i msg her and she told me that she wasn't talking about me. She also keeps my pictures up on facebook. I guess what I want to know does she still want to be with me or is she moving on? I know she wants space so I.m trying not to talk to her at all for the next month. Is there anything else i can do besides that to get her back?
It's hard to say whether she wants you back or not.
Rather than going a month without talking with her, why not try something a little less drastic. Call her once a month just to see how she is doing, to let her know you still care, and to maintain contact. Be cheerful, don't talk about your relationship, and keep the call to 15 min. This will give her the space she needs and give you the contact you need.
Good luck! George
-- from George
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