Is he using me?

Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
I'm very vexed now...when i am out with him, he will show ways of concerns like holding me when i was going to fall etc...

We went on a trip together recently and we almost make out but i insist no as i'm afraid it might stain our friendship...he did tried to hug me to sleep and kiss but i dunno...till now he hasnt show any actions of gng further into relationship...

Whenever i asked him out for a date or movie, he will say see 1st...but mostly last minute a yes...

He always indirectly tell me that he is gn to meet this particular gal to celebrate birthday or what...but since i'm not his there a need to tell me?

vexed...pls advise..he like me or using me> Advice
I think he likes you and is trying to use you.

You need to have a long, honest, trusting, caring talk with each other to find out exactly how you feel about each other.

You two have been seeing each long enough to have this talk.

Without talking, it is all just guessing.

Good luck! George

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