What is he up to?Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
Hi, I've met this guy and we've been intimate for the past month or so, however, he has a girlfriend who he claims he is going to dump as soon as he finds a new place (which is supposed to be in February). I'm not the cheating type of person, so I feel terrible about all of this, but at the same time I really really do like him, and now I'm afraid I'm ruining things with him because I keep going back and forth between "you're just using me for ass" and " you're never going to dump your g/f" and "okay, fine I trust you, I can't stop talking to you just like that". I just don't want him to think im crazy, but at the same time I just don't know what to do: let it go b/c he has a g/f and if he really wants to be with me, he'll make it happen when it's officially over with his g/f...i just don't want to lose such a good guy, b/c ive been hurt terribly in my last relationship. Sorry so long! Thanks for your help!
Give him until February.
If he doesn't move out from his g/f then it is time to give him the word... either move out or I move on.
You will find out where you stand after saying this.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com
Speak Your Mind - Share your Thoughts on this Question!
All Advice in the category - General Dating
Browse our Answer Database- Browse Answers by Question Category
- Browse Answers by Age Group
- Browse Answers by Date of Response
Please read through the advice on this site before you Submit your Own Question! We have thousands of pages of valuable advice that can immediately help you with your situation.