She's Shy and Young
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Male
i like this girl. im 16 shes 14. i like her heaps but i dont think she likes me. im trying to talk to her heaps but she keeps her distance. i try to talk about myself and ask questions about her but she just wont let me in. i dont know if maybe shes to young for me but i tell me self that age dusnt matter but maybe she just dusnt know what to do or if im intimidating her or sumfin but i just dnt know how to ask her out coz i dnt want to ruin my chances. can u help please?
If she won't even talk to you comfortably I wouldn't ask her out!! Dating someone is about spending lots of alone-time with someone that you know, trust, and can be yourself with. She can't even talk to you yet, never mind fully be herself :)
Keep working on the friendship. If she's 14 it could be she's just really shy and doesn't want to be laughed at for doing the wrong thing. Which comes back again to her being able to fully trust you, to being comfortable with you. These things take time and patience. Keep talking to her, keep spending time with her. The more you do, the more she'll trust you, and the better your relationship will get.
-- from Jenn
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com