Moving Into a Relationship
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
So me and my guy friend are now kinda diggin each other, everything is great. But we had a shaky past and i cant let it mentally go. Sometimes i think back and think badly of certain situations. We hang out, talk and we are cool and have cuddle time all together, heres the thing. Its still like we buddies, i mean he is sweeter and i know i shouldnt rush anything, but its scarey to think that he may be slipping away, but it just begun you know. Like when we watch a movie, we cuddle, we kiss we play video games, how can i make it still on the up and up for a relationship and not let him stay in the we are "special friends" mode and keep seeing me as a growin relationship or do you think im just being to scared bcause of the past...help me please.
Definitely do not rush things. If you guys are happy and things are going along, let them keep going. Keep snuggling and being there for each other and talking. Great relationships go on for years and years, so a few months at the beginning is a mere drop in the bucket. The more you spend time together and talk together and share your thoughts and ideas and dreams, the more that the web that holds you together will strengthen.
-- from Jenn
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com