I just told him not to lie to me
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
i've recently ended a 1 year relationship with my boyfriend.He made me feel very low, he would never ring me and will only ring me after 1 or 2 monnths and ask me if i can see him. he would come , sleep at my place and wakes up and leave promising to see me soon. I rang him last week, he had friends around he just started up a fight and called me a bitch. It really hurted me and i decided to stop seeing him.I began chatting with a guy i met in the internet and met him last week. I really really liked him. I wasn't confident at all about myself. I felt like i have nothing to attract him.He is good looking and smart. . He did tell me i'm beautiful but couldn't believe him i just told him not to lie to me.i just felt i can't attract such kind of a guy.I told him that i have been very stressed last year and thats why i've gained weight and i was actually trying to hide myself didn't take my coat out eventhough it was very very warm.He asked me what i'm trying to hide as i couldn't look at him directly . He did rang me again the next day asked if i could go out with him and would pick me up from my house.. I agreed , but he didn't come. I rang him the next day and he told me he was sorry he had a call from his family and he had to go to them. He rang me yesterday very late at night and i was asleep ,he asked about me and told me he would ring me the next day.i like this guy, but i'm afraid of having another bad relationship. how should i deal with this.what if he doesn't ring, should i ring him? i just feel he thinks i'm a troubled person,needy and having lots of problems and is scared.i don't want to loose him. please advice how can i make him interested.
If he doesn't call this time then my advice is to let him go.
You've had enough bad treatment during the past year so why enter another relationship of a similar nature?
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com