I really just want her back
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
Okay well my now ex-girlfriend and I live right next to eachother and we dated for just about 8 months. We were pretty serious. Then I left for vacation to New York to visit family and she went to Georgia to visit Family. And when i got back i walked in her house and she was all calm. Then in a matter of about 10 minutes she started to cry and she wouldnt tell me why. Then after a little while she told me she fell out of love with me and all i can do now is think about her. It even hurts my stomach when we fight about stupid things now. I really just want her back. I have no clue how to get her back. I have changed alot already and it only been about 2 weeks. And it still hurts me alot. I just need to know what to do without letting her go. Please let me know.
Ask her if anything happened in Georgia.
Maybe she kissed another guy or something like that. That's a more likely explanation than she just fell out of love with you.
Stop fighting with her if you ever want her back. You should be trying to be her best friend now. Be patient, loving, honest, trusting, sensitive and kind to her. Be there when she needs someone to talk to.
Give her her space since she needs it now. Don't try to talk about your relationship other than to remind her that you still care for her.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com