Does he like me
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
I know you are getting tired of hearing from me every week but I still am confused over this guy. Last week you said that your opinion was that he definitely wants to be with me again but let me tell you what has happened since then. Last Fri. night we all went to the bowling alley as usual and he even called me before my friend and I went and asked me if I was going and at what time. Well, when we got there he was being really sweet to me at first. We were all having fun and getting along very well. Then I made a comment about a guy friend of mine having a nice butt. My ex did not seem to like that and made some kind of rude comment about this guys butt. Later on my ex started talking to some other girls that none of us know and these girls started being really mean to me and calling me bad names, etc. I got really upset because my ex did not stick up for me and he said that they said I was giving them mean looks which I don't ever do. He should have known that and he did know that because he told a mutual friend of ours that he knows that I would never do that, but he couldn't tell me that himself. Any way, I ended the night by telling him that I didn't even know if I wanted to be his friend any more and he left. This week at school, it seems like he has gone out of his way to run into me and make sure that he says hi. Our close mutual friend who he told last week that he will never get over me completely asked him if he still likes me and he nodded and said yes very softly and slowly. Another girl at their lunch table asked him if he had trouble sleeping at night because he was thinking about me and said, "yes, most of the time". We have both been getting anonymous letters trying to get us back together. Today he said that he got another one (which I didn't get) and to our friend he said, "Doesn't this person know that it's over?" But I think he might have just been saying it to see how I would react. I made sure that I did not react in any way at all. He then asked me for a hug and told me that I looked really cute today and even reached up and touched my hair. DOES HE OR DOES HE NOT WANT TO GET BACK TOGETHER WITH ME? I'M SO CONFUSED!!! I think that he is very unsure too because no one ever tells him how I still feel. I'm not going to ask him to come back to me - I want him to come back to me because he wants to.
It still seems to me that he likes you.
Have you been giving him positive reactions so he knows you like him? Be sure to smile at him and act nicely.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com