He thinks that I dont like him
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
Me and my ex only dated for 9 days..and i fell in love with him the first night we hung out..we got along soo well and never really would fight, but my mistake was i would always say, "you dont like me", or "you hate me" just playing around..but i think it got out of hand..and he told me that he was offended by that. I apologized to him and i told him i was just so caught up and so excited that we had been dating. We also live about 25 minutes or so away from each other..but that really isnt a problem because i go up around his area all the time. I have the strongest feelings for him and i dont know how to tell him with out scarring him away from me....i dont want to lose him. we are still friends as far as i can see....but u had told me in the previous message that we are having trouble being friends. But I need to and really want him back. he says he still likes me....and i just dont know how to say it to him that im sorry and i would really like for him to understand how much he means to me. He thinks that i dont like him and thinks that i thought that he was only playing me. i just dont know what to do??! please help me. i cant lose this guy..he is amazing!
thank u so much!!!
I gave you advice two days ago which you don't seem to be following.
You need to give him space right now. You haven't known him long enough to be his friend much less his girlfriend. Move slowly with him using the advice I already gave you.
If he really likes you he will come back your way.
In case you have lost the advice I sent, here it is again:
Call him once a week for 15 min. Find out how he is doing and tell him you still care for him. Be cheerful. Don't talk about your relationship.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com