Could he be telling the truth?
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
im desperatly in the need for some good advice,i recently turn 18 and just broke up with my 20 year old boyfriend,we met eachother a year ago trough my sister,and we were 2gether as a couple for4 months but it felt like forever,he took me to meet his family he met mine and things looked like they were getting real seriouse and fast he even asked me to move in with him and told me he wanted to have his first born with me and wanted to marry me and so on...my problem is that i always tought it was to good to be true and i guess i was right i always tried to becareful with my feelings and not fall in love but i did anyway and now im hurting cause i know he cheated on me i can see the change in him the way he treats me and how his never there for me when i most needed him the way he started caring more about his apearrance andi keep finding girls numbers it seems like he lost interest in me in everyway at the beggining sex was great he couldnt have enough of me we use to do it al most everynight and everymorning he use to make me breakfast in bed when i was sick he would bring me flowers he doesnt do thatno more i know he knows i love him he saids he loves me too but im not so sure anywasys reason why i broke up with him is cause he stood meup friday night i was waiting for him to atleast call but he never did so i decided to call him his cell phone was off and he never turns it off unless hisat the movieswhen he came home like 3 4hours later smelling like sex he lied to me over and over again saying he wasnt with no 1 else then he went to the bathroom were he took long and i know for a fact he was calling some 1 and when he tought i wasnt looking he tried erazing all his messages and put his phone on vibrator while some 1 else called him for the rest of the night anyways we broken up but we remain friends he cried i tried 2 b strong even though when he wasnt looking i would cry like crazy he tells me nothing happend and that when i realize his telling the truth im gonna regret it he tells me he doesnt just wanna be my friend and wants to marry me and be with me 4 ever i never actually caught him in the act but i still doubt him i need to know should i take him back give him a second chance?should i give it time for him to prove if his worth another shot?even though i love him should i 4get him?could he be telling the truth plizz i need some answers fast..... sincerly HELP
I think you have plenty of evidence to let him go.
If he really loves you he will continue calling you and trying to persuade you to come back to him. You will then have to decide whether to give him another chance or not.
It's true you don't have perfect evidence, but you have a lot to go on.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com