But she says they are in love
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
Ok this girl has a bf, they were real close, they been together 2 years,she says they are in love, which i doubt, because she wouldnt like me,He moved 4 hours away,( kind of a long distance relationship now)and her bf was flirting with my other female friend and he said they had a weird relationship, and that he wanted her and not his own girlfriend.This girl is still stuck on him, i could treat her so much better, some of my friends(and hers) say i should show her im better than him, but then again, i dont know.He lies to her so much, she even knows he lies.I'm seriously lost on what i should do, because we both like eachother, but she says they are in love.
My advice is keep your hands off.
She feels she has a good, strong, "in-love" relationship.
You feel that she doesn't. Sooner or later she will discover for herself that she is not in a very good situation. At that point, you as her friend, will be there to comfort her and perhaps become her boyfriend.
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com