She ended up dating him
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
I met this guy who i became Best friends with for 2 years.. we were together everyday.. our friends always thought there was something else going on. One day we did end up hooking up. I had feelings for him but could never tell him. i told this girl who i trusted and she ended up dating him a week after i told her how i felt. They have been dating for almost 2 years now. He calls me and messages me over msn all the time. He has asked me to pick him up from work and we have been shopping as well as i went to his place.. I need to know what i should do about this.. i still have feelings for him.. I just dont know if he feels the same. He makes me feel like he does still care and my friends tell me that they see him watchin me all the time when we hang out with our friends.. what should i do.. I really love him still!!!!
It's hard to figure him out. Maybe he considers you a very good friend, after all, you've known each other for at least four years.
My advice is to keep your thoughts away from him. He has a two year girlfriend and you don't want to jeopardize that relationship, do you?
You will feel much better by trying to reduce your contact with him and let him do his own thing.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com