I still think we can be a family
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
my ex and i have a one year old daughter together and we broke up in august. i still love him and i still think we can be a family. he says he loves me still and we still sleep together but he doesn't want to live with me. he doesn't think we can stop fighting. even though the reason we started is because of my boss's 16 yearold daughter. how do i get him to see that we should be together, a family.
The best way to show him you could make a good family is to stop arguing.
YOU must be the one to do this since you want to get back together. Whenever you feel like arguing, put it aside. And if he is starting an argument just give into him. Of course, there will be fighting in any relationship but you should be focussing on the type of arguments that got you in this fix in the first place.
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Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com