My fear is sending her the first email

Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
I recently met a lady through the internet who seems to be attracted to me and wants to get to know me, my fear is sending her the first email with my details. I dont want it to come off looking like a copy & paste from my MS works or from some dating site profile.

I want to be sincere with what I write about me, and need to know how to compose such a letter. Any tips for what to say and not to say about explaining myself so I dont come off looking like an idiot would be greatly apprecitaed.

Thanks a billion
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She will want to know your marital status, your family, your profession, your age, your financial security, your religion, something about your life, something about your plans for the future, and hobbies/activities.

The best you can do is be as honest as you can and show a pleasant personality.

Ask her about herself and her family, etc.

If you know something about her from her profile then followup with questions on matters you find interesting, and highlight those areas where you might be compatible.

Don't write an encyclopedia... keep it reasonably short.

Good luck! George

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