How can I reawaken that love without forcing it?

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me and my now ex-girlfriend have 2 children together, have been together over 2 years and have lived together for almost a year. We got into an argument and she immediately wanted to be friends. I suggested that if she loved me that we should work things out and change what was neccessary. She said she thought she loved me but really only loved me as a friend. I've questioned her about her interest in other guys but she swears there is none. I believe her. I want her back. She seems confused herself like she doesnt know what she is doing but at the same time seems set in her ways. Maybe it got boring for her? How can i reawaken that love without forcing it? Advice
Return to being her lover instead of a semi-husband. You need to be one or the other.

In fact, maybe that's what she wants without realizing it... marriage.

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