I'd love to have her back
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
i dated my ex for a year, we broke up 6 months ago, she left the relationship between us as "never caring to see me again". im finally getting over her, but she has been calling me off and on since the break up. Her birthday was a month ago and she called me on her birthday morning, i didnt pick up, but thought this was odd. just this week she left a message at my work. In a poor little baby voice, she said that she was trying to reach me but it didn't seem like i was answering. She wanted to know how i was doing, and said she would try some other time. Then this weekend she called my cell three times, which i missed. I want to talk to her, but every time that i have talked to her since we broke up, she acts like she wants to talk to real bad or maybe misses me, but when i actually talk to her she gives me attitude and wants to tell me about her new boyfriend. For the last two months it seems that she calls once every two weeks. I'd love to have her back, but if it's not going to ever happen how long can i let her once in a while phone calls keep making me think about her?? and advice????
Tell her like it is.
If she calls up, don't go along with her routine. Instead, tell her you feel about her calling up and leaving you dangling.
Deep down everyone wants to hear the truth so she should accept what you say and maybe change her ways. It's your best shot, so take it.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com