I needed a man to fight for me
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
Hi im in my first year of university and i just broke up with my boyfriend of 1 year.I broke up with him because everytime we had a fight I was always the one to seek him out and try to resolve things. When i ended it with him, I said that i needed a man to fight for me and i just didnt think he could do that. We remained friends and later i started having feelings for him again. I started dropping obvious hints to him like asking him to stay over for the night in hopes he would see that i was willing to give him another chance but again he would not fight for me. I brought this issue up to him and all he had to say was that he didnt know where i was coming from. This has happened several times since then and i jus want to know if I am wasting my time waiting for him to get the picture or if i should just swallow my pride and go back to him. Do you think he really loves me because i dont know anymore.
I'm not sure what you mean either.
Maybe what you mean is that you want a b/f who will fight to get you back if you have a parting of the ways. If that's what you mean then explain to him exactly and spell it out to him what you are talking about.
Once he understands, he won't be confused and will start acting the way you want him to.
Hope this helps! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com