I think he's cheating on me
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
hi, me and my boyfriend have been going out for a loonngggggg time now, almost a year and i think he's cheating on me. sometimes, he's suddenly all nice and then he next really mean when i try and talk about something serious. when i ask if he's cheating, he says, "do you think i would cheat on you" and sometimes "believe what you want". he wants sex more than ever now and is upset when i dont. his phonebook has so many girls and so does his resent calls list. he's so easily jealous and hates me being around other guys but gets mad at me when i dont like how he's acting around another girl. he says he loves me, but i dont know if he's just a good actor or a really bad boyfriend. help pleaseeeee.
If you really think your boyfriend is cheating, then leave him!
That's no way to live your life worrying all the time. Your relationship lacks trust and no relationship can last with that going on.
So, unless you want to have long, deep, honest, caring and loving conversations to get to the bottom of this, then let it go and find someone new.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com
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Is guy cheating?
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