Should I tell her I like her
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
Hi, I've wroten to you before, I really need your felp this time. Remember that "what would she do if I kissed her", you told me to ask her if she was upset but I didn't do it, because I was afraid of her reaction. Aparently, her atitude towards me hasn't changed and last night, in a class dinner, I had a friend of mine saying to her that she thinks (it's a female friend of me and hers) that I like her, and she (the girl I like) asked her why would she say that. My friend asked her if she liked me and she said no. Well, now she knows I like her, and I know that she doesn't like me. I think that I should tell her personaly what do I feel for her, I can't stop thinking about her when i have nothing to do, and sometimes I get really angry with myself (i'm not thinking about suicide or nothing like that, don't worry).
Should I tell her I like her and that she should give more value to the ones who like her and care about her like I do and that she should give me a chance, or try to get closer to her (I've noticed that normally, she only talks to me when she needs to, or to ask me to do something for her).
I just don't want to forget her, and I want to be with her.
Sorry for the mess.
Your hopes are getting slimmer and slimmer.
She told your friend that she doesn't like you.
Now you want to tell her directly. I say go for it, but don't be surprised if it doesn't turn out your way.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com
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