Is he still interested?Visitor's Question from a unknown year old Female
Okay, I know that I have been writing a lot lately and know that you have many people who write into you and a lot of questions to answer, but I am so confused and I really need help. So please forgive me for writing once a week. Any way, as I said before, I really want him back but don't know for sure how to tell if he wants me back, too, and is just being stubborn. I did not see him for almost 2 weeks because we were off of school but Tues. at school I saw him and gave him a hug because I was hugging other friends that were standing there. He actually hugged me back. Then on Wed. at school, I and some friends sat by him at lunch but we really didn't talk too much. I went back to my class after lunch and his class is right across the hall. My friend and I were standing outside the classroom until class started and he came up behind us and scared my friend. He then came over and stood by me and all of a sudden playfully, gently stepped on my toe on purpose. I then put all my weight on his foot, knowing that it would not hurt him and he smiled at me. He then looked at either my necklace or my shirt and said "that's really cute" and he stood there with me until class started. Then after school the same friend and I were sitting in the commons area and he came up and was talking to us. After a few minutes it was time to leave so I stood up and he said my name and when I turned around he had a kind of sad look on his face and his arms out for a hug, which I gladly provided. Then we saw him again before leaving and he hugged my friend (he is really friendly and hugs a lot of people and they are just good friends) and I said, "where's my hug?" He said, playfully, "I already gave you yours a few minutes ago". I kind of playfully pouted and he smiled and hugged me again. He also asked for a ride home but I was getting a ride with my friend. Do you think these are signs that he is still interested? He also told another mutual friend of ours that he still thinks of me alot, has a lot of feelings still for me and that he probably will never get over me completely. Do you think that he is starting to want to get back together with me?
Yes, he definitely wants to be with you again.
You need to give him a clear sign that you want him too.
Tell him you really enjoyed the time that you two had together and that you would like to try it again.
He will probably be delighted and take you up on the offer. Give it a try.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com
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