Is it a good idea for us to get back together?
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
I met with this guy in college in 1998, in 2000 we became intimate and as a result I got pregnant after that I did not inform him that I was pregnant. I gave birth in 2001 to a baby boy. Again we met in 2004 he was very furious with me why I left him without any explanation so I decided to tell him what really happened he was very happy about the baby he came to my place to see the baby plus to talk to my mum and he wanted us to get back together. In 2005 I went to visit him and we spend one week together. Is it a good idea for us to get back together because he has already introduced me to all his sisters and brothers. Am confused if it is a good idea to do that even though at the moment I have no serious boyfriend and he also has no girlfriend. Please help me.
You didn't mention whether you care for him or not.
Let's assume you do. Then there is no reason that you should not get back together. You already know each other, your boy will have his natural father back, and his family likes you.
But, seem to have doubts about this. Be sure to listen to your heart and your gut reactions. Don't get rushed into something you are not ready for.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com